The most popular
question that arises while planning a wedding is “Who Pays for What?”
Here are the
traditional payment arrangements:
Bride: Groom’s wedding
ring, Groom’s wedding gift, Bridal attendants’ gifts, Personal stationary,
Medical exam and blood test (if required), Accommodations for out of town attendants.
Groom: Bride’s rings (engagement and wedding),
Bride’s wedding gift, Gifts for the best man and ushers, Bride’s bouquet,
Mother’s Corsages, Boutonniere’s for attendants and fathers, Medical exam and
blood test (if required), Marriage License, Officiant’s fee, Honeymoon,
Accommodations for out of town attendants.
Bride’s Family: Ceremony Costs – location, music,
rentals, etc./Reception costs – food, beverages, music, rentals, decorations,
cake/Bride’s wedding attire and accessories, Wedding invitations and postage,
Bridesmaids’ bouquets, Transportation for the bridal party, Bridesmaid luncheon, Photography, Floral
decorations.
Grooms Family: Rehearsal dinner, Wedding night Suite.
The good news? Today there is no set standard as to who pays
for what. There are many ways to divide wedding
costs to give you the wedding of your dreams.
Here are a few different ways to divide expenses.
Bride and groom pay
for the entire wedding – Many couples, especially older couples, decide to
pay for their wedding themselves. Some
second marriages also pay for their weddings.
Expenses are shared
by all – Another alternative for older, more established couples is to
split the entire cost of the wedding (all elements listed in previous sections)
into thirds – the bride and groom pay one-third, her family pays a third and
his family pays the final third. This
arrangement may work well if the families share similar income levels and
expectations for the wedding.
Expenses are split
between the bride and groom’s families – In this arrangement, expenses that
are traditionally paid by either family are pooled and then split evenly
between the two families. The bride and
groom still pay their own expenses (as listed previously).
Each family pays for
their own guests – This arrangement helps minimized awkward feelings about
the guest list. Sometimes one family has
a much larger group of friends and family members that they wish to invite,
while the other family may want to keep the guest list small to minimize
costs. In this case, the families might
add together all of the expenses for the ceremony and reception and divide it
by the expected number of guests. Each
family (and the bride and groom) then pays that per-guest cost for each person
they wish to include.
Bride or Groom’s
family pays for the entire wedding – This may occur if there is a large
disparity in income between the two families.
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